This is the first blog I ever posted in my life. One night I got a bug up my ass to start the blog I always said I would start and I wanted to write something that was funny and struck a cord one way or another with people. I thought a catchy title would get some traffic and this is what I came up with. Well... it definitely did that and then some. Since I posted it (on various sites), I got a ton of readers and lots of comments, some laughing and agreeing with me, but many people too this article more seriously than it was intended. Here are my clarifications:
The title was meant to be funny. Don't take it for face value. I make a statement in the very first sentence of this article saying, " the following information is assuming that you are in a healthy committed relationship..." I am not actually telling women they have to put out in order to be loved. I firmly believe though that it's important to take the extra time to show some loving to your man. Men, by nature, are ego maniacs. Women need to remember that and work with it. Men like to be the big swinging dick in the office that just got a blow job that morning. You better believe that in most cases he is going to come home and offer something good back to you too (whether it's dinner, an orgasm, or just doing the dishes).
What do you think? Still offended?
The title was meant to be funny. Don't take it for face value. I make a statement in the very first sentence of this article saying, " the following information is assuming that you are in a healthy committed relationship..." I am not actually telling women they have to put out in order to be loved. I firmly believe though that it's important to take the extra time to show some loving to your man. Men, by nature, are ego maniacs. Women need to remember that and work with it. Men like to be the big swinging dick in the office that just got a blow job that morning. You better believe that in most cases he is going to come home and offer something good back to you too (whether it's dinner, an orgasm, or just doing the dishes).
What do you think? Still offended?
A wise woman's response from 20sb.net:
ReplyDeleteSo.... Angelica was being facetious, as she said several times. The point is that daily sexual affirmation is important to keep partners fulfilled and satisfied in the relationship. The point is NOT that oral sex is a magic ball and chain which your man (or woman) will not be able to shake. There's a bit of a difference there. While I agree with those who are saying relationships should not be based on sex, I feel the need to give a shout out to the OP who never made that claim. Those comments are actually a bit off topic for this thread, albeit accurate. (-: