3 summers ago, we happened to be home at the same time for 3 weeks and we spent a lot of time together. We decided to try to make it work since there was clearly something special between us. We took it slow and didn't call each other boyfriend or girlfriend for probably 8 months. We didn't put any pressure on each other and we took all of the elements of our friendship--respect, support, humor, patience--into our romantic relationship. 1 1/2 later, we are still together and we are planning on moving in together before the year is over. It stinks being in an LDR, but I know he is the right person for me, so we put up with it and work through it. It is only making us stronger and it only makes us appreciate each other more.
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- Text each other often. It's simple, quick, and lets your partner know you are thinking about them.
- Share your inside jokes with each other throughout the day. Make each other laugh often.
- Make sure you call the person if you know they are having a bad day. It's bad enough you can't be there for the person, but at least try to be with a phone call and maybe follow it up with an e-mail, text etc.
- Do extra special things on the holidays. For example, for Valentine's day, my BF sent me 3 cards, one for each day leading up to V-day, and one was a funny card, one was a card more geared towards a friend, and one was romantic, they encompassed all the major parts of our relationship. This may not work for your relationship, but think of something different and meaningful that will. It's not about how much money you spend. When you are in an LDR, it's all about the feelings, emotions, and meaning in the relationship. Those have to stay strong or your relationship won't.
- Engage in phone sex once in awhile. I don't love doing this, but I suck it up because it makes my BF so happy.
- Use technology to your advantage! Skype occasionally. My BF hates doing all this stuff on the computer, but he sucks it up for me.
- Talk about happy thoughts. Fantasize about your future life together, where you will live, places you will travel together etc. My BF and I always daydream about traveling all over the world when we are having a tough time in our LDR. It always makes me feel better to think happy thoughts about our future.
- Make a plan. You can't be in an LDR forever or at least most can't. At some point, you have to start talking about a plan that you can both work towards in order for you to be together. I didn't have a plan for a long time and it felt like it would never end. Now, we know we will move in by January, so it doesn't seem so hard or hopeless anymore.
- Choose your breaking point. Decide how many weeks/months you can handle not seeing each other and then make sure to avoid going over that time. My boyfriend and I start to fight and get aggravated with our situation and with each other at about the 8 week mark. I make sure to see him every 8 weeks unless we absolutely can't do it. We have accepted that is our breaking point and we need to respect that and make seeing each other work.
- Don't change your life around unless you are 100% sure. You don't want to uproot your life, your future plans, your career etc. unless you are sure about the relationship and you are sure you want to be with this person for a long time. Make sure you don't feel like you are the one having to make all the changes and sacrifices because it will most likely lead to resentment later and resentment is poison for a relationship.
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